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By Dr. Toye Sobande · First published in BusinessDay, 27 February 2026
Success brings a hidden cost. As leaders gain authority and deliver results, the people around them begin to soften, delay or withhold difficult information. Dr. Sobande calls this the quiet crisis of leadership: the leader keeps deciding, but on a filtered version of reality.
The argument
The filtering is rarely disloyal. People are weighing the social risk of bringing bad news to someone powerful, and often conclude it is not worth it. Leaders then misread the resulting quiet as consensus and confidence.
The cure sits in the leader’s everyday reactions. How a leader responds to criticism or an unwelcome report teaches everyone what is safe to say. Pausing, asking questions and visibly rewarding constructive challenge widen the channel; defensiveness narrows it.
Key takeaways
- A lack of pushback usually signals caution, not consensus.
- Psychological safety is built, or destroyed, in daily reactions to bad news.
- Success bias can hide cultural, ethical and operational warning signs.
- Invite dissent deliberately and reward people who challenge constructively.
- Ask “what blind spots remain?” rather than “are there any problems?”
“Leadership is not weakened by hearing hard truths.”
Dr. Toye Sobande
A question to take away
When did someone last bring you news you did not want to hear, and how did you respond?
Read the full column. This article summarises Dr. Toye Sobande’s column “The quiet crisis in leadership: When success silences the truth you most need to hear” from his weekly series The Leadership Factory in BusinessDay Nigeria. Read it in full on BusinessDay ↗
